Classé sous | Témoignages

Cafés-rencontres

 Chère animatrice,

 Je t’adresse ce petit-mot, que je destine aussi à toutes les mamans et toutes les femmes que j’ai côtoyées au café-rencontre. N’hésite pas à le partager avec elles.

Je t’écris aujourd’hui, car j’ai été incapable d’assister à un dernier café-rencontre avant mon retour au travail. D’y avoir été, sachant que c’était mon dernier, cela m’aurait beaucoup trop peinée. Ne voulant pas passer l’heure à pleurer, j’ai pris sur moi de vivre ce deuil toute seule, car si la fin de mon congé de maternité annonce un renouveau, il marque aussi le terme d’une aventure intense, pas toujours joyeuse, parfois très difficile, mais toujours intense, totalement en contact avec mon enfant et avec la femme que je suis au plus profond de moi. La fin des cafés-rencontres symbolise pour moi la fin d’une des plus belles périodes de ma vie. Eh oui! Malgré qu’elle ait été difficile sur la plan émotif, cette période n’en a pas moins représenté un moment fort de symbiose avec mon fils, un moment qui ne reviendra plus de la même façon, du moins pas avec Francis.

J’ai fréquenté les cafés-rencontres assidûment durant presque 6 mois. Au cours du premier café, en fait dès les présentations, je me suis sentie bien, accueillie, à ma place. En quittant ce premier café, je savais que j’allais y revenir à toutes les semaines. Et que de rendez-vous ai-je déplacés pour y assister! Pour rien au monde je n’aurais voulu manquer un café!

Je dois bien t’avouer au départ, je doutais que ces rencontres allaient m’apporter le soutien et le réconfort dont j’avais besoin. Engoncée dans mes préjugés, fatiguée à force de ne plus dormir, parfois (souvent!) déprimée, je me croyais incapable de partage, d’accueil inconditionnel de l’autre et d’écoute. J’avais aussi peur de ne pas être comprise, je craignais qu’on me juge, dans mes peurs, mes peines, mes inquiétudes. J’ai été fort heureusement trompée! J’ai trouvé aux Relevailles un lieu apaisant, où le temps s’arrête, où l’on peut en toute liberté parler de soi, où l’on se reconnaît en écoutant l’autre, où l’on se sent accueillie, reconnue, respectée, et je dirais même aimée. Et j’y ai rencontré des femmes extraordinaires, fortes, belles, sensibles, ouvertes aux autres. Des échanges d’une telle qualité sont très rares dans une vie et je me sens privilégiée d’avoir pu en profiter.

Je crois que le succès des cafés-rencontres s’explique de multiples façons, mais trois facteurs me semblent essentiels : se sentir soi-même prête à partager et à accueillir l’autre, y rencontrer d’autres femmes et mères extraordinaires, mais surtout être soutenue par des personnes d’une rare sensibilité et avec un sens accru de l’écoute, comme toi. Sans elles les cafés auraient-ils été les mêmes? J’en doute.

Alors un grand merci. Puissiez-vous continuer longtemps à écouter et à accueillir les autres avec autant de doigté et de respect! Et merci à toutes les mamans qui m’ont écoutée, m’ont conseillée, m’ont livrée à leur tour leurs secrets, leurs doutes, leurs inquiétudes et leurs joies. Vous devez savoir à quel point votre présence m’a soutenue et aidée! Vous occuperez toujours une place toute particulière dans mon coeur.

 Longue-vie aux cafés-rencontres!

 Mélanie

202 Réponses à “Cafés-rencontres”

  1. I intended to compose you that very little note to say thanks a lot yet again for the striking ideas you have provided on this page. It’s certainly open-handed of people like you to present easily just what a number of people might have distributed as an e book to help with making some profit for their own end, particularly considering that you could have tried it if you ever considered necessary. These concepts likewise served to provide a fantastic way to comprehend someone else have the identical fervor really like my very own to realize significantly more in regard to this condition. I am certain there are millions of more fun occasions ahead for individuals that read carefully your blog.

  2. kyrie 4 dit :

    I wish to show some thanks to the writer just for bailing me out of this particular dilemma. After surfing through the world-wide-web and obtaining ways that were not pleasant, I was thinking my entire life was over. Being alive without the strategies to the difficulties you have fixed through your good review is a critical case, as well as ones that would have in a wrong way damaged my entire career if I hadn’t come across your web site. Your primary knowledge and kindness in taking care of everything was excellent. I am not sure what I would’ve done if I hadn’t come upon such a subject like this. I can also at this point relish my future. Thank you so much for the impressive and effective help. I will not be reluctant to refer your web sites to anybody who should get support about this subject.

  3. I must show my passion for your kind-heartedness supporting folks who need guidance on your theme. Your special commitment to getting the message up and down became extremely effective and has frequently encouraged people much like me to arrive at their aims. This insightful guide can mean a lot to me and a whole lot more to my mates. Regards; from each one of us.

  4. nike roshe dit :

    I am just writing to let you know what a great encounter our daughter obtained visiting your web page. She came to understand so many things, most notably what it’s like to have an incredible coaching spirit to make most people really easily comprehend some multifaceted subject matter. You really exceeded our expectations. I appreciate you for rendering such necessary, trustworthy, educational and as well as fun tips on this topic to Jane.

  5. I wish to show some thanks to the writer just for bailing me out of this particular scenario. Because of exploring throughout the the net and coming across things that were not pleasant, I figured my entire life was well over. Existing without the presence of solutions to the difficulties you have solved by means of this write-up is a crucial case, as well as the ones that might have in a wrong way damaged my entire career if I had not encountered your blog post. Your good knowledge and kindness in touching every item was excellent. I am not sure what I would’ve done if I had not encountered such a step like this. I can also now relish my future. Thanks for your time very much for this skilled and results-oriented guide. I won’t think twice to endorse your web blog to anyone who should get support on this matter.

  6. I must point out my respect for your kind-heartedness giving support to folks who require guidance on this one situation. Your special commitment to passing the solution across has been especially advantageous and has really empowered people just like me to attain their targets. Your own interesting guidelines means a lot a person like me and additionally to my mates. Warm regards; from all of us.

  7. My wife and i felt now fulfilled Michael managed to do his analysis through the precious recommendations he made through the weblog. It’s not at all simplistic to simply find yourself making a gift of tips which usually the others could have been making money from. And we also grasp we’ve got the blog owner to be grateful to because of that. All of the explanations you’ve made, the straightforward blog menu, the relationships you will help promote – it’s got mostly fantastic, and it is helping our son and us do think this subject matter is cool, and that’s extraordinarily vital. Thanks for the whole lot!

  8. longchamps dit :

    Thank you so much for providing individuals with remarkably remarkable possiblity to discover important secrets from this blog. It really is so ideal and as well , packed with fun for me and my office acquaintances to search your blog at the least 3 times a week to read the new items you have. And of course, we are certainly amazed with your striking inspiring ideas served by you. Certain two facts in this post are undoubtedly the finest we have all had.

  9. I am glad for commenting to make you know of the nice discovery my wife’s girl experienced viewing yuor web blog. She came to understand plenty of issues, most notably how it is like to have a marvelous teaching nature to get most people with no trouble thoroughly grasp some complicated issues. You undoubtedly did more than my expected results. I appreciate you for imparting those great, dependable, revealing and even unique guidance on this topic to Janet.

  10. Thanks for all of the efforts on this web page. Debby take interest in carrying out internet research and it’s obvious why. Many of us know all of the dynamic method you present worthwhile tricks via your blog and as well as strongly encourage response from people about this situation plus our daughter is in fact studying a great deal. Take advantage of the rest of the year. You are doing a fabulous job.

  11. A lot of thanks for all of your efforts on this blog. My mother take interest in doing research and it is simple to grasp why. Many of us know all relating to the compelling medium you render both useful and interesting tips and hints by means of the web site and even welcome participation from others on this content and our own simple princess is certainly being taught a whole lot. Have fun with the rest of the new year. Your performing a really great job.

  12. I intended to create you a bit of observation to be able to thank you once again on your pleasing knowledge you’ve shared on this site. It is certainly extremely generous with you to offer unreservedly precisely what a few people would’ve offered as an electronic book to help make some bucks for themselves, especially considering that you could have tried it in case you wanted. These good ideas also acted like the good way to fully grasp other people online have the identical interest just as my very own to figure out whole lot more in terms of this issue. I know there are lots of more pleasurable periods in the future for people who looked at your blog post.

  13. I must express some thanks to the writer just for bailing me out of this type of problem. Right after surfing through the search engines and finding recommendations which were not productive, I figured my entire life was done. Existing devoid of the solutions to the problems you have sorted out through your entire article content is a serious case, as well as the ones that would have in a negative way damaged my career if I had not come across your website. Your main natural talent and kindness in maneuvering all things was excellent. I don’t know what I would’ve done if I had not come upon such a subject like this. I can at this time relish my future. Thank you very much for the impressive and effective guide. I won’t think twice to endorse the blog to any individual who would need counselling about this subject.

  14. I am writing to make you be aware of of the extraordinary encounter our child found studying your web page. She came to find lots of pieces, most notably how it is like to possess an amazing teaching character to get many people smoothly learn various impossible issues. You undoubtedly did more than her expected results. Many thanks for imparting the precious, safe, educational as well as easy tips about that topic to Janet.

  15. I intended to create you one bit of note so as to say thanks yet again regarding the nice advice you’ve shared on this website. This has been quite incredibly open-handed with you to convey openly just what some people would have marketed as an ebook to help with making some dough for their own end, primarily since you could possibly have done it if you desired. The good tips as well served as a fantastic way to fully grasp the rest have the identical fervor the same as my very own to know whole lot more when it comes to this issue. I am certain there are numerous more enjoyable periods in the future for folks who look into your blog post.

  16. retro jordans dit :

    Thank you a lot for giving everyone an extraordinarily remarkable possiblity to read articles and blog posts from here. It is usually so pleasing and also stuffed with a great time for me and my office friends to search the blog particularly three times every week to read through the fresh guides you have. Not to mention, I am also always happy with your amazing pointers served by you. Selected 2 tips on this page are in truth the most suitable I’ve ever had.

  17. My husband and i ended up being contented Michael could finish up his preliminary research while using the ideas he had through your web pages. It is now and again perplexing to simply always be making a gift of procedures which often some other people may have been trying to sell. So we see we now have the writer to thank because of that. The illustrations you’ve made, the simple site navigation, the friendships you can assist to instill – it is many extraordinary, and it’s leading our son and our family recognize that that content is excellent, which is incredibly pressing. Thanks for everything!

  18. I want to show my appreciation for your kind-heartedness giving support to persons who must have help with this particular matter. Your real dedication to passing the message around ended up being rather interesting and has frequently permitted others like me to reach their desired goals. The important publication entails this much to me and further more to my office colleagues. With thanks; from each one of us.

  19. air max dit :

    I actually wanted to construct a word in order to appreciate you for all of the great information you are giving here. My incredibly long internet research has finally been paid with extremely good facts and strategies to talk about with my family. I would declare that we site visitors actually are rather blessed to be in a really good community with so many wonderful professionals with helpful guidelines. I feel truly grateful to have encountered your entire webpage and look forward to so many more awesome times reading here. Thanks a lot once more for a lot of things.

  20. I precisely wanted to thank you very much once more. I do not know the things I could possibly have undertaken without the actual smart ideas shared by you concerning such field. Completely was a very intimidating concern in my circumstances, nevertheless understanding a new skilled style you resolved it forced me to cry with delight. Now i am thankful for your information and in addition believe you really know what an amazing job your are doing training the rest all through your web page. Most probably you have never met any of us.

  21. I have to show my appreciation for your kind-heartedness giving support to men who must have guidance on this important idea. Your personal dedication to getting the solution up and down turned out to be astonishingly significant and have in every case helped girls much like me to reach their desired goals. This insightful key points indicates so much a person like me and much more to my mates. With thanks; from everyone of us.

  22. I would like to voice my respect for your generosity giving support to people that really want help with this particular question. Your special dedication to getting the solution all around had been astonishingly advantageous and have continuously helped regular people just like me to reach their objectives. Your warm and helpful guide implies a whole lot a person like me and even more to my peers. Regards; from everyone of us.

  23. nike max dit :

    My husband and i got absolutely cheerful when Emmanuel managed to complete his analysis through the entire precious recommendations he acquired when using the web pages. It is now and again perplexing just to possibly be freely giving techniques most people might have been selling. And we grasp we have the blog owner to be grateful to for that. All of the illustrations you have made, the simple site navigation, the friendships your site help to engender – it’s all spectacular, and it’s making our son and us know that the theme is amusing, which is particularly fundamental. Thank you for all the pieces!

  24. I want to express appreciation to this writer just for rescuing me from such a problem. Because of looking out through the search engines and finding thoughts which are not helpful, I thought my entire life was gone. Being alive without the presence of approaches to the difficulties you have sorted out through your entire posting is a critical case, as well as ones that would have negatively damaged my entire career if I hadn’t encountered your web page. Your primary know-how and kindness in taking care of everything was crucial. I’m not sure what I would’ve done if I hadn’t discovered such a thing like this. I can also at this point look ahead to my future. Thank you so much for the expert and sensible guide. I will not hesitate to recommend the blog to any individual who wants and needs counselling on this problem.

  25. A lot of thanks for all your effort on this blog. Betty delights in doing investigations and it is easy to understand why. My spouse and i learn all of the lively medium you convey useful information through this web blog and as well as boost participation from the others on the concept plus my daughter is now discovering a great deal. Take advantage of the remaining portion of the year. You are doing a fabulous job.

  26. birkin bag dit :

    I want to convey my respect for your generosity in support of persons that require help with your theme. Your special dedication to passing the solution throughout appears to be certainly interesting and has without exception enabled associates like me to reach their targets. Your insightful tutorial denotes this much a person like me and especially to my office colleagues. Thanks a lot; from all of us.

  27. yeezy boost dit :

    I wish to get across my admiration for your kind-heartedness for people that must have help with your idea. Your very own commitment to getting the message all around had been unbelievably good and have continually helped girls much like me to arrive at their targets. Your entire warm and helpful report means a lot to me and especially to my peers. Best wishes; from everyone of us.

  28. I must express appreciation to this writer for bailing me out of this particular condition. As a result of checking throughout the world wide web and seeing things that were not powerful, I believed my life was over. Existing without the approaches to the difficulties you’ve fixed as a result of the site is a crucial case, and the kind that might have negatively damaged my entire career if I hadn’t discovered the website. Your ability and kindness in handling every part was precious. I am not sure what I would’ve done if I hadn’t encountered such a solution like this. It’s possible to at this point look forward to my future. Thanks very much for the reliable and results-oriented guide. I won’t hesitate to suggest your site to anybody who should receive tips about this topic.

  29. bape hoodie dit :

    Thanks a lot for providing individuals with an extremely spectacular possiblity to read articles and blog posts from this web site. It really is very excellent and as well , stuffed with amusement for me personally and my office colleagues to search your website no less than thrice every week to read the latest stuff you have got. And indeed, I am just usually happy with your astounding tactics served by you. Selected 3 ideas on this page are unquestionably the most effective we have all had.

  30. Thanks for each of your labor on this web page. Betty delights in managing investigation and it’s easy to see why. Most of us hear all concerning the compelling form you create invaluable guidance on this website and as well as improve contribution from visitors on the situation plus our own daughter is undoubtedly becoming educated so much. Take pleasure in the rest of the new year. You’re doing a pretty cool job.

  31. puma fenty dit :

    Thank you so much for providing individuals with an exceptionally remarkable possiblity to read in detail from this site. It is always so pleasurable and stuffed with a lot of fun for me and my office fellow workers to search your web site particularly thrice in 7 days to read through the latest guides you have got. Of course, I am always impressed with your wonderful information you serve. Selected 4 ideas on this page are basically the simplest I’ve ever had.

  32. hermes bag dit :

    I intended to draft you that very little observation so as to say thanks a lot again about the pleasing pointers you’ve documented above. It was certainly surprisingly open-handed with people like you to deliver unreservedly all a number of people could possibly have made available for an e-book to help make some money for their own end, specifically since you might have done it in the event you considered necessary. The tips also acted like a fantastic way to fully grasp most people have similar passion much like mine to know the truth more and more on the subject of this matter. I am certain there are several more pleasant periods up front for individuals who look into your site.

  33. yeezy shoes dit :

    I simply desired to say thanks again. I am not sure what I would have carried out without those suggestions provided by you over such a question. Previously it was the terrifying crisis in my position, but taking a look at the specialised strategy you dealt with that took me to leap for joy. Now i’m happier for the help and thus trust you comprehend what a great job you are always getting into instructing others using your website. I am sure you’ve never met any of us.

  34. oakley sale dit :

    Thank you a lot for giving everyone an exceptionally brilliant chance to check tips from this blog. It’s always so ideal and full of fun for me and my office mates to visit your blog on the least thrice per week to see the newest guides you have got. Of course, I am just actually fascinated considering the tremendous things you serve. Some 2 facts in this article are indeed the simplest I’ve had.

  35. I and my friends came following the excellent information and facts found on the website and then quickly got a terrible suspicion I never thanked the web blog owner for them. These people are actually as a result very interested to read all of them and have in effect pretty much been loving these things. Appreciation for simply being really thoughtful and then for deciding on such really good useful guides most people are really needing to understand about. Our own honest regret for not expressing gratitude to sooner.

  36. I am writing to make you understand of the fantastic encounter my wife’s daughter experienced studying your webblog. She learned numerous things, with the inclusion of how it is like to have an amazing coaching style to get the others with ease learn about a number of tricky issues. You undoubtedly surpassed people’s expectations. I appreciate you for producing these valuable, healthy, informative and even easy tips on this topic to Gloria.

  37. I am glad for writing to let you be aware of what a perfect discovery our girl went through using yuor web blog. She even learned numerous issues, with the inclusion of what it is like to possess an amazing helping mood to have the rest just know a number of tortuous matters. You truly did more than our desires. Many thanks for rendering these warm and helpful, trusted, revealing and as well as fun thoughts on your topic to Lizeth.

  38. adidas shoes dit :

    I wish to show appreciation to you for bailing me out of such a setting. After looking throughout the world-wide-web and finding solutions which were not pleasant, I believed my life was gone. Being alive without the approaches to the issues you have resolved by way of your main article is a crucial case, as well as the kind that could have in a wrong way affected my entire career if I hadn’t encountered your blog. The skills and kindness in touching all the details was tremendous. I don’t know what I would’ve done if I hadn’t come upon such a subject like this. I can also at this point relish my future. Thanks for your time very much for the expert and results-oriented help. I will not be reluctant to suggest the website to any individual who should receive direction about this problem.

  39. yeezys dit :

    I’m just writing to let you understand what a impressive discovery my wife’s child went through using yuor web blog. She figured out a wide variety of details, which included what it’s like to possess an amazing giving nature to make the others just grasp some extremely tough things. You truly did more than our desires. Many thanks for rendering the useful, trustworthy, revealing and in addition easy tips on this topic to Janet.

  40. I am writing to make you be aware of of the magnificent discovery our princess undergone browsing the blog. She discovered a good number of pieces, most notably what it’s like to have an excellent helping heart to have the mediocre ones clearly know just exactly several impossible topics. You actually surpassed visitors’ expectations. I appreciate you for delivering the warm and helpful, trusted, informative and also cool tips on this topic to Kate.

  41. I would like to show thanks to you just for rescuing me from this particular challenge. Because of exploring through the internet and getting solutions which were not beneficial, I figured my entire life was gone. Being alive minus the strategies to the difficulties you’ve sorted out by way of your website is a serious case, as well as ones which could have in a wrong way affected my entire career if I had not noticed your site. That understanding and kindness in touching all the things was valuable. I’m not sure what I would’ve done if I had not discovered such a point like this. I can now look forward to my future. Thanks for your time very much for this impressive and effective guide. I won’t hesitate to suggest your blog post to any individual who should receive counselling on this topic.

  42. I wish to show thanks to the writer for bailing me out of this particular setting. Right after scouting throughout the search engines and obtaining tips which were not productive, I figured my entire life was gone. Being alive devoid of the solutions to the difficulties you’ve solved all through your entire review is a crucial case, and the ones which might have badly damaged my career if I hadn’t encountered your web page. That capability and kindness in handling all things was valuable. I don’t know what I would’ve done if I had not encountered such a stuff like this. I can also at this time look ahead to my future. Thank you very much for your expert and result oriented guide. I won’t hesitate to refer your web page to any individual who will need assistance about this situation.

  43. I wish to show some thanks to you just for rescuing me from this issue. Because of looking out throughout the world-wide-web and coming across ways that were not beneficial, I was thinking my life was gone. Living without the presence of strategies to the problems you’ve sorted out through your article content is a serious case, as well as the kind which could have in a wrong way affected my entire career if I hadn’t discovered your site. Your good understanding and kindness in touching every item was very useful. I’m not sure what I would’ve done if I hadn’t come across such a point like this. I am able to at this moment look forward to my future. Thank you so much for your impressive and effective help. I will not hesitate to suggest your site to any person who would need guide about this area.

  44. I am just writing to let you understand of the brilliant experience my friend’s princess went through reading through your web page. She came to find plenty of things, which included what it’s like to have a great coaching mood to have many people easily know precisely a number of extremely tough subject matter. You actually surpassed visitors’ expected results. Thanks for producing such beneficial, healthy, edifying and also easy thoughts on this topic to Ethel.

  45. I needed to post you the little bit of remark to be able to say thank you again for the awesome basics you have featured above. It was quite generous of you giving unreservedly exactly what a number of us might have marketed as an electronic book to generate some money on their own, especially now that you could possibly have tried it if you ever desired. The pointers also acted to be a easy way to be certain that some people have the identical interest the same as my very own to know the truth whole lot more on the topic of this condition. I am certain there are millions of more fun situations in the future for those who scan through your blog post.

  46. yeezy boost dit :

    I needed to put you a bit of observation to help give many thanks again just for the magnificent ideas you’ve discussed at this time. This has been quite surprisingly generous with people like you to allow easily what many people could have sold as an electronic book to help with making some bucks for themselves, principally since you could have tried it in case you considered necessary. Those strategies likewise acted as a easy way to comprehend many people have similar passion similar to my own to understand much more on the subject of this problem. I’m certain there are thousands of more fun instances up front for those who start reading your blog.

  47. jordan retro dit :

    I want to express some appreciation to the writer for bailing me out of this particular incident. Because of researching through the world-wide-web and coming across basics which were not pleasant, I figured my entire life was over. Living minus the answers to the problems you have fixed through the write-up is a crucial case, as well as those which may have adversely damaged my career if I had not noticed your website. The understanding and kindness in dealing with all the stuff was helpful. I am not sure what I would’ve done if I hadn’t encountered such a thing like this. I can at this time look ahead to my future. Thank you very much for your expert and results-oriented guide. I won’t be reluctant to endorse your blog post to anyone who should get care on this situation.

  48. I precisely had to appreciate you all over again. I’m not certain the things that I might have gone through in the absence of the actual methods provided by you on my concern. It became a real horrifying situation for me personally, however , encountering your skilled manner you handled that made me to cry over fulfillment. I am thankful for your information and then sincerely hope you really know what a powerful job you have been providing teaching the others with the aid of a site. I am sure you have never met any of us.

  49. goyard dit :

    Thank you so much for giving everyone remarkably brilliant chance to read articles and blog posts from this site. It is often very excellent and stuffed with amusement for me and my office friends to visit your blog minimum three times every week to read the fresh guides you will have. Not to mention, I’m certainly contented concerning the special points served by you. Certain 1 ideas in this post are undeniably the most efficient we’ve ever had.

Rétroliens

  1. writeessay dit :

    do my essay for me http://gsgfsdgfdhjhjhj.com/

    You reported it fantastically.


Écrire un commentaire

Restez connecté :


Pour nous joindre : 5485, boulevard de l'Ormière
Québec (Québec) G1P 1K6
Tél: 418-688-3301
Fax: 418-688-7666
Question? Commentaire? Écrivez-nous


Partenaires